We are a Muslim polygamy matrimonial service brought to you by Polygamy.com. We set up this service as we believed this is a Sunnah we needed to revive. We care strongly about Islam and the teachings of Allah and have built our site with great care and detail. Inshallah we are taking every precaution to be sure that we are in-line with the teachings of Islam.
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You must understand the legal status regarding matrimonial polygamy where you reside.
This site is targeting Muslims who are seeking a polygamous marriage within the eyes of Allah. In some countries polygamy is accepted, but not all. It is your responsibility to check local law where you reside. In countries where polygamy is illegal, Muslims who wish to practice it must accept that there is to be no legal signing of a marriage certificate or registration of the relationship as a marriage; especially if you are entering into a second, third, or fourth marriage. Legally this would then be seen as no different to one man having multiple female companions.
Where polygamy is illegal, we advise you still have a ceremony in which your families and the religious community recognise the relationship as a marriage, even though it may not be legally registered. Such a ceremony as a nikah in your local mosque.
It is also important to be aware that when a marriage is not registered there would be no legal ties between the man and woman.
Warning This site is not for everyone! Do your research and seek as much advice as you can before entering into a polygamous arrangement.
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We aim to help out those who wish to practice polygamy in the most decent and respectful manner. We have invested a lot of time and money into this project and we strongly believe in it.
According to sharia law, Muslims are allowed to practice polygyny. The Qur'an sipulates that a man may have up to four legal wives at any one time; the restriction on the number was not customary before the advent of Islam in Arabia.
The husband is required to treat all wives equally. If a man fears that he will not be able to meet these conditions then he is not allowed more than one wife.
“If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or that which your right hands possess. That will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.”
- Quran 4:3
This applies right down to the finest details, if you give a gift to one wife you must give a gift of similar value to each of the others. You must spend an equal amount of time with each wife and you must be fair in how you devide your love and attention to each.
Brothers, you are welcome to use this service to seek another wife; as permitted by Allah. However, you must not use this service to annoy your existing wife(s). Fear Allah. And before continuing on this journey be sure you are confident to be able to support your wife(s) equally and justly.
It is important your intentions are honourable; do not sneak around. Care for your wives as each is to be equally important to you.
“Fear Allah regarding women. Verily you have married them with the trust of Allah.”
- Bukhari, Muslim
The Shari'ah regards women as the spiritual and intellectual equals of men. A man who takes on multiple wives is only allowed to do so if he can love and care for them equally. Support him in good, as he should support her in good. If a husband desires to care for more than one wife, so allow him, as Allah says
“It is not fitting for a mu’min (believing man) or mu’mina (believing woman) when a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger to have any option about their decision: if anyone disobeys Allah and His Apostle he is indeed strayed on a manifestly wrong path.”
- Surat al-Ahzaab (33), ayah 36
It is important to treat each other with the utmost respect and care. The Prophet (Peace and Blessings be Upon Him) said
“Among my followers the best of men are those who are best to their wives, and the best of women are those who are best to their husbands. To each of such women is set down a reward equivalent to the reward of a thousand martyrs. Among my followers, again, the best of women are those who assist their husbands in their work, and love them dearly for everything, save what is a transgression of Allah's laws.”
We have a team of dedicated individuals that monitor all profiles, photos, and communications to ensure the utmost level of modesty. Do remember, this is NOT a dating site, neither is dating or loose talk with the opposite gender permitted in Islam. Any individual found to be doing this will have their account suspended with no refund.
Polygamy is not for everyone and a bride-to-be may stipulate in the marriage contract her conditions such as monogamy.
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